One of my friends posted on Facebook the other day about romance being dead. I had to disagree. So here is my take on romance.
I have a policy that “the little things are the big things”. I know that romance can look so different to people, but it is there if and when you want to see it. Sometimes we tend to take things for granted, but when I picture a GREAT romance, this is what I see:
Romance is someone believing in your dreams and cheering you on.
Romance is holding your hand when you walk into a crowded room.
Romance is waking up to a good morning kiss and going to bed with the words “I love you” ringing in your ears.
Romance is hitting the snooze button so you can spend a few more minutes holding each other.
Romance is deep discussions about philosophy, life and love.
Romance is allowing the person to do what makes them happy and finding a way to connect even though it isn’t your thing.
Romance is looking at your partner in pajamas and seeing the beauty in them.
Romance is dressing up for them when you have nowhere to go.
Romance is snuggles by the fireplace with no agenda but to be together.
Romance is finding a new adventure to embark on.
Romance is time.
Romance is a cup of coffee made for you while you shower.
Romance is a listening ear when you are stressed.
Romance is “I will take care of the kids so you can get your stuff done”.
Romance is taking a walk to reconnect.
Romance is knowing that when things are hard, you have each other’s backs.
Romance is patiently waiting when your partner is running a little late.
Romance is touch.
Romance is sitting outside watching the sun set in silence.
Romance is a shoulder rub after a long day.
Romance is being the peace in your partner’s storm.
Romance is doing the dishes before your partner can.
Romance is respecting their time enough to be on time.
Romance is cooking dinner and lighting candles on a Tuesday.
Romance is being kind and thoughtful after a long, hard day.
Romance is a text to look at the sky so you can enjoy it together even when you are apart.
Romance is dancing in the kitchen even when there is no music playing.
Romance is knowing that people will be attracted to your partner because they are so incredible. And being so solid that you know it will never matter.
Romance is overhearing your partner refer to you in a positive manner.
Romance is keeping the past in the past.
Romance is honesty, even when it might hurt.
Romance is seeing yourselves together in 30 years and knowing it will just be better then.
Romance is letting your partner sleep in when they are tired.
Romance is buying a new book because they mentioned it.
Romance is “what can I do to make your life a little better/easier/more fun today?”
And that, my friends, that, is a beautiful thing. The little things truly are the big things.
Wild trips and exorbitant adventures are a fantastic aspect of a relationship, but mastering the mundane… That is where success lies.